


Divorce can leave you feeling overwhelmed, reactive, and uncertain about what steps to take next. As a divorce and separation coach with a background in family law, I offer coaching support to help you slow down the process, gain clarity, and approach each stage with confidence.
Through my coaching sessions, you will learn to:
- Stay calm and grounded during emotionally charged situations
- Prepare for meetings with your solicitor, mediator, or barrister
- Navigate the divorce and financial settlement process
- Complete and organise legal paperwork such as Form E
- Communicate clearly with your ex-partner and professionals
- Create a realistic plan for life after divorce
I work with both men and women who:
Feel overwhelmed by the emotional and legal complexity of divorce
Want to feel prepared rather than reactive
Need help understanding legal paperwork and procedures
Want clarity, confidence, and emotional stability
As a divorce and separation coach, I provide essential support during every stage: pre-divorce, throughout the proceedings, and post-divorce.

I am an accredited divorce and separation coach with over 20 years’ experience working in family law, and I continue to work as a paralegal/legal assistant alongside my coaching practice.
That experience means I understand both the emotional reality of separation and the practicalities of the divorce process. I know how overwhelming it can
I am an accredited divorce and separation coach with over 20 years’ experience working in family law, and I continue to work as a paralegal/legal assistant alongside my coaching practice.
That experience means I understand both the emotional reality of separation and the practicalities of the divorce process. I know how overwhelming it can feel when you’re trying to make important decisions while also dealing with everything that separation brings.
As your coach, I don’t provide legal advice, but my family law background gives me a valuable understanding of the process and helps me support you in feeling more informed, prepared and confident about the steps ahead.

My approach is warm, practical and supportive. Separation and divorce can leave you with so much to think about that it can be difficult to know where to start.
I offer a calm, confidential and non-judgemental space where we can untangle what’s happening, work out what matters most to you and focus on the things you can control.
My coaching
My approach is warm, practical and supportive. Separation and divorce can leave you with so much to think about that it can be difficult to know where to start.
I offer a calm, confidential and non-judgemental space where we can untangle what’s happening, work out what matters most to you and focus on the things you can control.
My coaching is legally informed, but I don’t give legal advice. Instead, I can help you feel better prepared for conversations and decisions, understand the questions you may want to ask and approach the separation process with greater clarity and confidence.

I specialise in supporting people through separation and divorce - from those first difficult conversations and decisions, through to finding your feet and creating a life beyond it.
I can help you make sense of what can feel overwhelming, work through difficult communication, set healthy boundaries and navigate the emotional and practic
I specialise in supporting people through separation and divorce - from those first difficult conversations and decisions, through to finding your feet and creating a life beyond it.
I can help you make sense of what can feel overwhelming, work through difficult communication, set healthy boundaries and navigate the emotional and practical challenges that come with separation.
My approach is warm, practical and completely individual to you. You don’t have to have everything figured out. We start with where you are now and work together to help you feel clearer, more confident and more in control of what comes next.

I offer one to one coaching sessions based on your specific needs and where you are in the process.
Please reach us at contact@samshotterdivorcecoach.co.uk if you cannot find an answer to your question.
No. Divorce coaching does not replace legal advice. I do not act as your solicitor. I help you understand the process, prepare questions, organise documents, and approach meetings with clarity.
Yes. I can guide you through the structure and requirements of forms such as Form E, helping you prepare accurate, organised information for your solicitor.
Yes. I work with both men and women at all stages of divorce and separation.
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